How to Get a Woman to Like You
(Marlee’s back with some tips on how to get a woman to want you.)
In terms of how to get a woman to like you, the tactics are pretty simple.
However, one thing about women…
We will see right through you. So if your goal of getting a woman to like you is completely shallow in nature, meaning you’re reading this article to try and get in her pants, I’ll tell you right now, you’re completely wasting your time.
However, assuming you’re a good guy who just hasn’t figured out all the complexities of girls yet, and you’re simply interested in how to get women to like you, here’s a list that might help you out.
How to get a woman to like you at work: At work, regardless of if you believe it or not, we are still at a great disadvantage to men. On average a woman still makes only $0.70 to every dollar a man makes, meaning she is often doing the same job you are, but for less money. So at work it’s simple, make sure she knows she’s doing a good job.
As a coworker, mention it next time you see her in the break room. A simple, “Great job on that proposal yesterday, you nailed it!” is all you need to instantly get on her good side, and pretty soon guys you work with will be asking your advice on the subject of how to get women to like you.
How to get a woman to like you at a bar: Women at bars can be tricky, but here’s the thing; above anything else, they will respond to confidence. Confidence is probably the single most important thing if you want to get a girl to chase you.
But, if you’re planning on saying something along the lines of, “Damn girl, your body’s bangin’!” Save it, there’s no quicker way to sabotage yourself than mentioning sex, looks, or her body right away.
At best you’re going to end up buying her drinks all night and going home alone. Try a different approach, and introduce yourself instead. Then ask her questions about herself, listen, and your integrity will be rewarded.
How to get a woman to like you in a class: Classes are a great place to meet women. Cooking classes, gym classes, painting classes, photography classes… the list goes on.
The trick to figuring out how to get women to like you in this situation is simple: pay attention; to the class, that is. Women aren’t going to waste their money, so if they sign up for a cooking class and are instead distracted the entire time, it might not be as enjoyable as they thought it would be.
By all means strike up a conversation, but not at the sake of distracting her from what the instructor is saying. This is a hole in one when figuring out how to get women to like you.
How to get a woman to chase you at the gym: One thing is certain, almost every woman goes to the gym wanting absolutely nothing to do with the guys around her, and the “surefire” technique of offering to spot her is bound to backfire (trust me, she doesn’t need the help of an egotistical stranger).
Instead, compliment her on her lifting form. It shows a whole new side to the “gym rat” she’s familiar with. It shows you’re familiar with the fact that a woman doesn’t need a man, which is incredibly attractive.
How to get a woman to like you in a group/club: Be good at whatever you’re doing, and if you’re not? Have a good time. If you’re wondering how to get women to like you, joining a cycling group or a co-ed softball league would be a great step.
If you’re already a world class cyclist, striking up a conversation should come as no problem, as she might be looking to you for advice. Just make sure you’re humble and encouraging in any conversation. And if you consider yourself a complete novice, just make sure to be lighthearted throughout the way.
The whole points of groups or clubs is to get involved and have fun, so dragging the mood down by taking everything so seriously is going to be a major mood killer.
How to get a woman to like you in a coffee shop or library: Be ready to leave her alone. A woman sipping coffee and reading her favorite book is always fair game, but make sure you don’t tramp all over her “alone time”.
Ask her about her book, what flavor of coffee she might recommend, than leave the rest to her. If she goes right back to her book or newspaper leave her alone and take a seat nearby. She’ll appreciate that you’re not pushy, and she may even ask you to join her.
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