Flirty woman—How to attract the girl who flirts with everyone
Attracting a woman who flirts with everyone and trying to get her attention can be a difficult task. Well, difficult until you use the proper principles that will teach you how to attract her.
The flirty woman is easy to figure out once you realize that the number one thing she craves is attention. That’s why she flirts with everyone in the room (or the workplace, party, campout, ball game—you name it). She’s looking for attention, and what you need to do is NOT GIVE IT TO HER.
If you can separate yourself from the other guys, you’re going to get noticed. And how you separate yourself in the flirty woman’s eyes is by using the Push-Pull method. This is where you give her your full attention one day, then are too busy to even talk to her the next. She’ll wonder if she did something wrong (an indicator that the power has shifted in your direction), which is a good thing. Then when you reward her with your attention she’ll be more happy than usual to get it because she had been thinking about it since the day you didn’t give it to her.
If you’re on a call/text level with her, not returning them will also have the same effect. The flirty woman is used to having guys fawn over her, and return calls/texts almost immediately. When you don’t, it will show that you’re not like everyone else, and a funny thing will happen: she’ll start calling and texting MORE! This shows she is thinking about you and trying to win your attention.
Now, you don’t want to take this the level where she thinks you really don’t like her or are being mean, so you need to walk a fine line when Push-Pulling. If she asks why you haven’t been talking/calling/texting her, just tell her that you’ve been really busy with…(you fill in the blank), and it will have the added bonus of showing some social proof in the process. You see, when she has to work for your attention, when you give it to her it will be much more powerful.
If you separate yourself from the crowd, you’ll have a ton of success, in just about anything, but especially with a flirty woman. And when it gets time to set up an actual first date with her, check out my post on great first date ideas from earlier this month.
So it basically breaks down to separating yourself from the crowd and being the exception, which in this case means NOT always giving her the attention she craves and implementing the Push-Pull method when dealing with her. If you start off armed with that information, landing the flirty woman will be a breeze!
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