Alright, what I’m about to tell you took me years to say without feeling like a complete loser. (And the only reason I can tell it now is because my life has more women in it than I can handle these days.) See, I was horrible with women. Horrible.
Actually, it wasn’t just women, I was socially useless. I only had one good friend.
I was short and small for my age.
I was so socially maladapted that I cried in class or shut my eyes when the teacher called on me. I never got invited a single party, not one.
A butch girl made me do pushups and then shoved me in a locker for freshman orientation—when I was a junior.
When I was a junior, I broke up with a girl because she wanted me to go up her shirt and I had no clue what to do when I got there.
My senior year a girl from a different school, who didn’t know I was a loser, gave me charity sex. I lasted about four seconds, “Two Stroke Johnnie” was my new nickname.
Welcome to my world, right?
When I went to college, I thought everything was going to change. It didn’t.
While everyone else was getting girlfriends and meeting girls in bars, I didn’t go out of my room except to go to class.
Finally I got so disgusted with myself that I decided I was going to change.
Back in those days there was only one book on how to meet women, a little book I still have called, “How to Pick Up Women” by Eric Weber. I read it from cover to cover, had it memorized.
All pumped up with my new understanding of women and dating, I charged out and talked to girls. I’d like to tell you that that was the turning point for me.
It wasn’t.
I stuttered, I was nervous, I didn’t know what to say, I blushed for God’s sake. Sometimes I trembled so bad that I couldn’t even talk. I got every blow off in the book, and some I’ve never seen in a book.
I kept trying new things, experimenting with different techniques, reading countless self-help books…
And finally after years, and I’m not kidding, years of approaching, I became good at making conversation and attracting girls.
(I don’t know for sure how many times I’ve been turned down, but it must be around 1,500 times.)
But, all those times being shot down taught me what worked and what didn’t. Now, there is pretty much nothing a woman can say to me, no look she can give me, no body language she shows me, that I don’t know what to say and how to act.
There isn’t much that you will run into that I haven’t seen and overcome. Which means that I can help you improve your game. I’ve been there.
And guys, this isn’t to say that I date every woman I hit on. I don’t.
And it’s not my style to brag, but I’ve dated some pretty amazing women from all over the world… And I’ve dated some wacked out psychos.
Be careful what you wish for!
One of the things I’ve realized is that dating a model, a professional soccer player, or a hot girl half your age isn’t necessarily going to instantly change your life and make you happy.
But… I can tell you that knowing you can attract any woman you want, wherever you are, in a bar or at the library, in every situation, day or night WILL change your life.
Another thing I’ve realized is that the opposite was true for me. When you don’t know how to meet women you sorta go through life feeling frustrated and less than a man. It’s not something that’s easy to explain to someone who doesn’t get it, but I think you know what I mean.
But the thing is, when you can meet and attract women you have the confidence and charisma that other people notice instantly.
So How Do You Know I Can Help you?
Well, as you already know, there are a bunch of people running around shouting that they have all the answers.
Unfortunately for you, I don’t have all the answers.
But I do think I have some of the answers and the ones I have are pretty important.
And this is part of the reason I’ve finally decided to write and coach. I want that excitement back.
I get my success through your success and that gives me a rush.
I get high off your successes.
I love taking the guy I was…the guy who knew he was making mistakes with women and just didn’t know what they were, and helping him become the guy with more women than he knows what to do with.
It’s an incredible feeling when you can walk into a place and know you can meet and attract any woman there.
I don’t want anyone to ever have to feel the way I felt, or go through what I went through when I felt like half a man.
That’s why I started this site and wrote my first book on online dating. This is just the beginning though.
There’s a lot to cover and I can’t get to it all at once.
I will guarantee you that I’ll cover everything you need to become successful with women though. There will be videos, mp3’s, and more books coming.
If you want to learn more, I’d suggest getting in on one of my coaching programs.
Oh, and of course subscribing to my newsletter and checking out the rest of the blog.
If you have questions, suggestions or comments… email me at johnthomaspierce at gmail dot com and I’ll be happy to help you.
