First date ideas that get physical
So you’ve got a first date with a cool girl and you want things to go well, and you want it set up so things can move easily to the bedroom if you want to mess around.
In this post I talk about doing something that is sexually charged, lets her get to know you, activates her mind and her body…
…plus makes it easy to transition to someplace where you can have sex on your first date.
Having the option to sleep with a girl on the first date doesn’t happen by accident. It happens because you set things up from the very beginning so the only reasonable outcome is messing around.
First date ideas that start to that end.
I’ve found that girls are more likely to come to your house on a first date if they’ve already seen where you live.
So, it’s a good idea to let her see your place at the beginning of the date. You DON’T want her to come in, nor do you even suggest it.
All you want to do is let her see where you live so when the two of you are trying to decide where to go after your normal date…
And one of you suggests going to your house to check out your book/CD/Star Trek paraphernalia collection… that she is somewhat familiar with where she’s going.
Now, there are A LOT of ways you can really creep her out with this, so you have to be careful not to make her feel uncomfortable. There are a couple of good ways to set this up.
One way is to have her meet you at your house and then the two of you can leave from your place.
If you do this, you have to meet her at the door, DO NOT invite her in, or if you do invite her in for some unforeseeable reason, tell her to stand there by the door and wait for you.
If she decides to move from the doorway to the couch or a chair, fine. But don’t suggest it. If you suggest it, she’ll be on the defensive because she’s thinking that you expect something physical, and that is really, really bad.
Also, if she comes in your place before the date, don’t touch her while she’s inside. Then, when you get outside, make a production about being sorry for taking so long and give her a hug.
That right there will put her mind at ease that you don’t expect anything physical. And it will make her wonder if you really are that interested in her, and that can make her chase you if you do the other things right.
The second way to get to your place before your first date is to pretend you forgot something at your house that you need to stop back for quick.
So you pick her up and immediately tell her, “Sorry, but I need to grab my wallet at my house.”
When you get there, leave her in the car, run in, grab whatever it was you said you left, and go on your date.
Again, you don’t want it to look like you’re trying to get her into your house to get some action.
You’re going to play this so she asks to go back to your place at the end of your first date.
Now, let’s move on to first date ideas that crank up the sexual tension and get her to want you.
Or you can take a look at this post on lower key first dates.
